THIS IS HOW TO

STOP FIGHTING WITH YOUR EX,

PARENT YOUR KIDS

AND GET ON WITH YOUR LIFE

When you’re in a high-conflict divorce, the anger, fear and concern for your children’s wellbeing can be crippling

You find yourself up at 3am, over-analyzing every word you (or your ex) has said, paralyzed by anxiety and self-doubt about legal strategy and your financial independence

You may even be trying to navigate issues of safety for you or your kids, dealing with post-separation abuse, or fear you’re up against a narcissistic or borderline personality disordered ex.

As a Certified Divorce Mediator and professionally trained High-Conflict Divorce Coach, I know what you’ve been through, and I can teach you how to get out.

More emotionally available than an attorney, more experienced with divorce than a therapist, and never burdened by your situation like a friend or family member may be, a divorce coach is the ally you need to get through this

  • “I found Toby to be remarkably supportive and understanding as I’ve been approaching the separation with my partner. Toby has been able to hold space for me and give the perfect antidote in that moment of grief — a succinct nugget of wisdom that I could hold onto even after our session. It’s like she could see into the future and provide sage advice that applied to that one moment and beyond. Ever grateful for Toby’s magic and support through this process.”
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Coaching will help you stop fighting with yourself over every detail of your divorce

You shouldn’t have to endure conflict while trying to build a new and peaceful life

Many parents wish they had someone who could help them with both the emotional and the legal aspects of their divorce. Someone who….

Helps you make the best decisions for you and your kids in your parenting and financial agreements


Helps you process all the feelings of grief, fear, anger and resentment you may be experiencing


Teaches you how to craft emails and texts to your narcissistic or high-conflict ex


Helps you move from overwhelmed to empowered on this journey.

  • “During a very challenging time, Toby walked with me, created safe space and asked beautiful questions which helped me discover answers that were both affirming and empowering.”

WHAT WE DO IN DIVORCE COACHING SESSION:

  • “It’s Toby’s warmth, wisdom, dedication and compassion that have given me the quality of life I have today.”

You will feel empowered and confident in your new life. 

You will enjoy healthier relationships with your kids and future partners. 


You will experience peace of mind, free from conflict.

If you’re ready to end divorce conflict and transform your life,
divorce coaching with me is your path to freedom.

If you’re ready to end divorce conflict and transform your life,
divorce coaching with me is your path to freedom.